It gets tough being a single girl trying to date with all of this new aged shit going on. When I used to look at some of these couples on social media looking all happy I used to feel a little insecure about myself and I would even get a little jealous. As I get older I realized that some of these couples are full of shit. I am happy for anyone who is truly in love and to be honest what others have going on is none of my business but do not let anyone fool you or make you feel bad about your relationship status. I see countless amount of people who pretend to be something that they are not but behind closed doors it is always a struggle to remain happy. Now I am not naïve, I know that things will not always be hunky-dory in a relationship but some people just do not know when to call it quits. I honestly think that being comfortable in a relationship or situation can be the demise of yourself and your happiness. It is crazy how other’s opinions can validate how one feels about themselves and their relationship. Another thing that blows my mind is how people will try to conform to what society thinks they should be or to what they think their significant other should be when in all honesty that person is not even what they really want. Those people are always the ones that are the most judgmental but they are the ones that do not even know how to be themselves.
I said all of that to say this, THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. Just remain patient and figure out what it is that you really want and what is meant for you will come. Think about it, do you really want what may be her headache?
The Single B*tch