When dating any woman wants to feel desired and feel as though a man really wants her. Normally If I am really into you and I think the feeling is mutual I have no problems putting forth a lot of effort to show him my interest. Sometimes I think I am doing it all wrong. I have many people tell me that it is okay to play a few games when getting to know someone. As a woman do you think you should not text first, wait a few days before you call or text or even ignore a few texts before you reply?
I always feel that if I decide to play cat and mouse that I will end up getting burned in the end and the guy may lose interest. My mother and other older mature women who I am surrounded by tell me that you have to have a man on edge and that it makes him want you more. Men are not like they use to be when our parents were growing up and things have changed. Women are more sexually expressive and open minded now and it is extremely easy for a man to find a woman. See when you think it is just you, more than likely there are two more on the back burner. I personally think that it depends on the man. I am a woman and I know for a fact that if I felt that someone was playing games with me I would be annoyed and the guy would just be a blur.
Is it even possible to enjoy getting to know someone these days? If you are constantly trying to play by the rules will you end up being benched? Do you feel that making yourself available will have you taken advantage of?
-The Single B*tch