It is a rare occasion that I get approached when I go out but what is even rarer is getting approached by a single man. You may be saying “duh what is the point?” well what I am trying to say is that I always get approached by single boyfriends. Men who are in relationships but act as if they were single.
So I have to be honest, I have dealt with a couple of guys who were in some type of situation, more specifically a “committed” relationship. It was not on purpose the times that it did occur but by the time I found out he was in a relationship feelings and time have already been invested. I made a promise to myself that I would never get involved with any guy who is not totally single EVER again. Lately I have been trying to explore the dating scene more and decided that I would go on a date a week with someone different. So far it has been going very well. I have had some bumps in the road but oh well, it happens. I ended up grabbing some “dinner” with a somewhat friend and he revealed to me that he has a girlfriend. Obviously his intentions are not to be just friends because I can tell that he has a very high interest in me. I asked him why is he on a “friendly outing” with me if he has a girlfriend and he revealed that there is just one thing missing. He said that his girl is damn near perfect. She is reliable, intelligent, loyal and an overall “good girl” but there is NO sexual chemistry. At that point a couple of things crossed my mind. I thought “is he trying to recruit me as an official side chick?” or “does he just need someone to vent to?” of course the first thought is probably the most accurate. Since that conversation my mind has begun to wonder more.
Is it possible to truly be happy with someone? What exactly could be a deal breaker for me when dating someone? Is it possible to get everything that you need from one person? If your significant other is lacking something that is very important to you (if it is just one thing) do you stay or go? But if you are entertaining someone other than your girlfriend because of something that she lacks then why stay?
Why is it that I ALWAYS attract single boyfriends?
The Single B*tch