Listen damnit, I am tired of single people getting looked at like we have leprosy or some shit. It is like if you are over a certain age and you are not in a relationship then some people seem to talk to or about you in such a condescending manner. Everyone does not get into a relationship for the right reasons and there is nothing wrong with being single. For goodness sake single lives matter too.
I made my blog to make single women (all women honestly) feel like they are not alone. Sometimes you feel that you may be the only one who goes through something but you would be surprised at the amount of people who have the same thoughts as you and go through the same things as you. I feel that we focus on having a healthy relationship with a significant other that we forget that it starts with ourselves. If you are not right with yourself then you cannot expect to be right with anyone else. Your value does not increase or decrease based on your relationship status. A significant other is not there to complete you but only to compliment you. I am just sick and tired of people trying to dictate where you should be in your life based on social norms or tradition.
I am not saying that relationships are not important and that you shouldn’t be in one. What I am trying to say is that the most important relationship is with yourself. Anytime someone tells you what you should be doing in reference to a romantic relationship make sure you tell them that single lives matter too damnit.
The Single B*tch