One thing that I have enjoyed about being single is the fact that I really get to know myself. I have the opportunity to make sense of my thoughts, how I act and it even taught me how to understand others. I have developed many characteristics but one that I am most proud of is my ability to sniff out the bullshit.
When you are dating you come across many different personalities that have different ways of approaching you. When it comes to finding a man with some potential, I have had more failures than successes. See me, I am no dumb bitch so I try my best to learn from experiences than dwell on them. You begin to notice certain patterns, warning signs and red flags before things start to happen. When you really become a certified single bitch like myself you can even tell what a man’s intent is. I can even tell if he is used to a woman of a certain caliber. I do not like to gas myself up but I know my worth and my clout and some men probably can’t even handle what I have to offer. Once the signs begin to show you have to then decide if it is worth waiting to see if things will work or if you want to bounce before you get your feelings hurt. You are in control of your own fate.
There are no rules to dating and love so who knows where things may lead you. One thing that I know for certain is that you should always listen to your intuition. When woman was created she was given one hell of a gift and that gift is a sixth sense of noticing the bullshit. If you don’t use it, you will lose it. As my cousin “Ebony” from The Player’s Club once said “You have to use what you got to get what you want” and if you want a peace of mind and your dignity then you will definitely put your gift to use.
The Single B*tch