Stop Being So Pressed

I get it, sometimes being single isn’t so fun but gotdamn is getting a man all that some of you know how to talk about? I shouldn’t be able to scroll through someone’s Instagram page or Snapchat story and everyday there is a corny quote or stupid ass meme about you trying to find a man. I get trying to speak it into existence but shit sometimes its OD. Have you ever thought that maybe you are single for a reason? Hell, maybe you are single because you are so pressed. That shit isn’t cute sis. 

Okay I get it, at a certain age maybe you should be focusing on building long lasting relationships and making yourself happy. Just because you want to be in a relationship doesn’t mean that you should be in one. If a man is interested in being with you then he will come find you, looking all thirsty isn’t going to help your situation because no one likes a damsel in distress. I just feel that primarily focusing on being with someone else is a negative sign. Maybe you are alone at this moment in time for a reason, take it as an opportunity to better yourself. I know it may seem like your prince charming will never come but I promise he will in due time.


Yours Truly,

The Single B*tch

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