Why Be Like Her When You Can Just Be You?

As most of you probably know I have a disdain for some of these IG “models” that we see every day while scrolling through our timelines. Honestly I don’t knock the hustle but I just dislike the fact that it gives a false image of what we think all girls should look like. As women, we are very critical about how we look but to make matters worse we always have some men around that will remind us about what we are lacking. Some days I wonder why so many of us have the same style, the same look and partake in the same activities and I can’t help but to think it is because we are always trying to keep up with the next bitch.

I have been on this Earth almost 30 years and I have been around all types of women. I have been around women older than me, younger than me, married women, white women, black women, women from other countries, women who aren’t straight and plenty of different types of women and we all have one thing in common. We are all good at putting on a smile when ain’t shit going good in our lives. What you see isn’t always what you get. People can be whatever the hell they want to be while on the internet. Believe me when I say that I have been out around town and bumped into your favorite Instagram chick and she wasn’t anything like she is on the gram. Sis these bitches be out here struggling!!! I mean can you only imagine what some of these girls have to put up with or go through just to get a damn bag, a pair of shoes or a new ass? I mean hell I wouldn’t mind a new pair of titties or a more round ass but I am not down with going through hell to get it. I just wish more women would be more transparent and more relatable because it just may be another woman out there who could be inspired by her story.

Sis listen, I just want you to know that you are perfectly fine being just who you are. I mean yeah we would all like to improve something on our bodies but girl looks fade. You may look on Instagram today and see these girls on here stunting and flexing but believe you me, in a few years they will be out of style and a new wave of younger girls with weaker minds will be there to take their place. I promise you that there is probably someone who would love to have something that you possess and more than likely it’s something that money can’t buy.

The Realest,

The Single B*tch

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