I am all about female empowerment and also leading dumb bitches to the light but it comes to a point where you cannot save them all. We all know someone who makes really bad decisions in their love lives and they complain but do nothing about it. Now I know you are thinking “well we all do” which is true but some women make bad choices with trashy ass men who live trashy ass lives and they keep repeating the cycle.
As a friend or just a woman who can relate you always want to lend a helping hand or ear to another woman who is going through some bad issues in their love life (or life period). In life I have learned that it is so important to be honest with yourself so that you can be honest with others. I feel like there is no way I can be a true friend to someone else if I cannot truly be honest and sincere about the advice that I want to give. I have been through some crazy situations and I can honestly admit that I put myself in about half of those situations. I think that some women have not come to a point in life where they can realize, accept and try to change a certain behavior. There is no fucking way that you should be making the same mistakes later in life that you made earlier in life. I just cannot seem to wrap my head around or understand why women keep putting themselves in the same dysfunctional ass situation. Some of these women will see that a relationship or situation is not beneficial to them but yet they keep allowing themselves to stay. Again, I do stupid shit allllll of the time (well not that damn often) but I feel when you know the consequences and you are comfortable with what you are doing then you are ahead of the game.
All I am saying is that if you know someone who is doing dumb shit with dumb ass men then try to help by giving good ass sincere advice. After a couple of conversations with her and you see that nothing is changing then save your breath, time and energy. Unfortunately some people do not know self-love or their worth and that is something that takes time. Try to be there for her as much as you can but you have to realize that you can’t save them all.
The Single B*tch