You’re Not Special, You’re Convenient

Okay I know that sounded mean and I hate to bursts your bubble but hey it’s true.  Now I’m not here to break you down but my job is to put you on game and be realistic with yourself.

Ever been involved with a man and y’all seem to see each other on a regular basis but the shit just never took off? Well sis, sometimes it’s because you’re just the convenient choice. Men are quite simple creatures and in my opinion they don’t like to work too damn hard. Sometimes it’s not about who is the best for you but who is convenient for you. And let’s be honest, we women do it too. I’ve been in a situation before where I knew I “had it like that” but my little feelings got hurt when seeing me wasn’t as easy as it has been and he didn’t try harder. I feel like some men are limited to what choices they have and if they have more options than the next man then sis your ass better be special as hell. All I’m saying is know where you fit in and see if that works for you. If you’re not feeling it then get the hell on, you are no one’s option when you are clearly the only answer.

Yours Truly,

The Single B*tch

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